Today I saw "Waves" I think that I liked the Father's role the best. Especially when things get out of control and he goes to church alone. Happened to me a few times, we get solace from religion and it does not really have to be about family togetherness at church. His family is falling apart and he found quiet balance in religion. I remember myself as steadfast in going to church even if the people's action really bothered me there. I would ignore it and try to pay attention to the spiritual addresses, simply because I felt a balancing out when I did. I never told people that I attended religious service for any other purpose is that I FELT balanced there.