HI that is an interesting question I think the original term means to uphold a standard that is clearly not happening. It could also mean a viewpoint that is not in agreement. There are many examples, but I feel inside you already know what one would be. Do you believe that God simply put up a commandment and a member of your family just outright refused to agree or acknowledge the commandments? I remind your that the commandments are actually laws or administrative requires of the land or country.
A recent situation that I will put down that involves my own personal family. A while back I found out over the years that my family was indeed incestuous and I myself will have nothing to do with it period. What commandment of God should be foremost in my mind and heart? It would be Leviticus chapter 18 that has all kinds of sexual sins printed out loud and clear. The modern version of this is at:
Names of God Bible
3 Don’t let sexual sin, perversion of any kind, or greed even be mentioned among you. This is not appropriate behavior for God’s holy people. 4 It’s not right that dirty stories, foolish talk, or obscene jokes should be mentioned among you either. Instead, give thanks to God. 5 You know very well that no person who is involved in sexual sin, perversion, or greed (which means worshiping wealth) can have any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God.
So, what should I do? I am a New Yorker the first impulse I had was to punch in the face anyone even suggesting something like that family or not. I am not playing games in here I pursued the law courts and jail instantly. Now ask the question: WAS I WRONG? The appropriate example is this action then you will succeed in standing before the Judgment Seat of God satisfied in your mind and heart that you upheld divine principles no matter what. This is the most important thing of course and what the passage is referring to. Peace