Hi people are like that they actually can't tell the difference, not that it really matters and is a big deal or anything. Things happen better in make-believe worlds so that reality is hard to face you aren't as successful. I don't think people are crazy they just want a better life and can't make this happen. The accomplishments are not as good in real life, people haven't the faintest idea of how to get what is needed to succeed. A good college education may be impossible for many people, so this is the place where the dream world comes in. They aren't trying to hurt anyone they just hate being unsuccessful. So actually, nothing happens people of this kind are known as childish, silly, dreamers, and sometimes even slackers.
God has a plan called salvation that is given to people that deserve a real chance at life. They have potential and are as orderly as possible despite the fact that they are not perfect. They are honest heartfelt people that could use a real break in life. So, instead of describing the plan for eternal life as a gift from God it is best to describe the kind of people God is searching for. The stages of information may be better this way when people really do not understand.
